What is a lively relationship? I am sure, everybody wishes to have a full-of-life relationship. A good and caring relationship is almost like all over the world. But on the other hand, such people may forget if they need such type of person, they also should be like that. As it is said, “it takes two to make a quarrel”. Firstly, we should also be honest, good, and caring in this regard because it is a universal law, “give and take”. We must give love messages to her to get the same feelings that we dream of.
One thing is that I want to mention in the beginning that there is a great difference between the relationship in real life and the relationship in TV shows. We should not be dependent on the TV characters because sometimes it takes our expectations to a high level. At this point, we cannot give genuine attention to her with true feelings, not with phony ones.
It was the time when people have respect, shyness, and obedience to their loving ones. For an instant, a married couple still felt shy in the company of other people and even they did not lose the respect of each other. To an extent, did not meet or see each other before their marriage. After getting married they spend their whole life with each other. Even, they sacrifice their wishes willingly for each one when the need arises.
However, the world has changed today and man has also changed in respect of the ways of spending life and enjoying it. Modern technologies specifically, print media and electronic media. In some ways, the progress of man has not been used effectively or positively. It means we have spoiled and forgotten the real charm of building a true relationship.
Therefore, the new generation is more comfortable in getting information and knowledge of everything than our forefathers. For example, they have internet and mobile. By using these two, they watch TV, movies; listen to songs and other unnecessary things of their interest. So, they are impressed by the characters that watch TV shows. Even they try to do the same in building or running their relationships in real life. In this connection, they do not become successful in building their new relations or spoil an old one.
Those people of us who have grown up or growing up watching TV want to be like the characters of the TV shows or movies. They forget that real life is different from the TV characters because they are just doing actions or romance for the sake of money. Not for building real relations. The male characters who want to send, the love messages to her can be helpful for us. But it is up to the situation in which we are. The real thing lies in the true feelings that you have for her. Your feelings will talk when you display them with your actions.
You want to have a long-lasting relationship with your loving ones. So, you have to prove your true feelings. You know, a relationship of fake feelings is not going to be long-lasting.
The media scholars of the world have been worrying about the effects of TV on us. It has affected our development of emotions and intellect. It creates unessential wishes in new generations. The new generation has grown up watching TV where they watch various eye-catching things that attract them a lot. Watching their favorite characters they fill their minds with things that they see in the TV characters. Moreover, they are not able to get their wishes fulfilled according to their desire.
The more we watch TV, the more our violence and our attention spans. Sometimes, it diminishes our intellect to decide what the right is. Intellectually, we cannot deny the fact that the TV portrays the characters, are decided and they are of the impractical version of the life. It makes us idle and the servant of our false wishes. We become addicted to the depiction of love, marriage, family, social, and friendship when it becomes our habit to watch TV.
If you watch a few TV shows or dramas, they will have a similar pattern to the last one that you have seen. You see different ways of building or tackling the relations. The reason is that the couple you see there is created and they are displaying as well as speaking the decided dialogues and actions. Sometimes the actions are far off the reality.
Generally, we observe the dressing, dialogue, actions, ideas, money earning ways, etc. especially we see couples and wish to be a couple so we start looking for a partner for us. As we find someone, we want to implement the things that we learned from TV shows. We try to impress her and to an extent, we get succeeded in it. The fake feeling does not work last because it does not help in measuring real-life love.
If we talk about America, it will be more useful for you to understand. TV media has played a main role in American society, particularly within family households.
The fear of commitment has developed and enlarged when we compare a marriage of this time and with 30 years back. If we go 30 years back, having sex or a child outside before marriage was strange to discuss anywhere. Now, it has become a common practice of watching unmarried sex on TV. Most of the parents are single parents. 30 years back most of the couples were married. Your care and love for your family can make your relationship strong and long-lasting.
Kim and Oliver said in 2006 that love themes in media entertainment are very appealing to media lovers. Such love scenes are being watched by people of almost any age.
You have a partner and you want to send love messages to her. You are required to create true feelings and words. Which helps make your relationship strong? Otherwise, fake feelings cannot do so because they do not come from your inner self. The characters in TV shows create feelings and wishes that are just for that moment or their character may lead you astray.
We deceive ourselves when we think that we can understand the difference between TV and reality. They think that they are very smart and they are too. The view of relationships in TV stories is unrealistic. It is based on fervor venture and other situations. The experts have described it quite well that there is a possible link between watching TV and the expectations of relationships and different situations of life are unreal.
Most of us maybe believe in falling in love seeing someone first time. It is not our love that is our romantic wish. Suddenly, a feeling wakes up when we see a beautiful woman. However, that is just our approach to fulfill our sexual desires, not to have a person with us for our whole life.
